(Kimberly (she/her) took the express train down the fountain pen/stationery rabbit hole and doesn't want to be rescued. She can be found on Instagram @allthehobbies because there really are many, many hobbies!.)
I know that it’s already a few days into February but did you know that February is a month that celebrates letter writing?! International Correspondence Writing Month, or InCoWriMo for short, is basically a month-long opportunity for folks to hand-write and mail something every day.
The idea of InCoWriMo was born 10 years ago on January 25, 2013, with the first InCoWriMo in February 2013, so this is going to be the 11th InCoWriMo with people from all over the world writing notes to each other! There are more details on the InCoWriMo website, but people basically try to write and mail one letter/note/postcard every day of the month. And if you can’t do it every day, that’s ok too! It’s just a great way to connect with folks via mail as well as catching up on reply piles (yes, that’s directed at me, lol).
Who am I gonna write to?
There is an InCoWriMo address exchange if you want to share your address. Note that since you are commenting with your address on the page, it is available for people to see. I am not a member of the website and I’m able to see addresses, so if privacy is a concern, read on for other options.
If you are in any pen or stationery (or other) enthusiast groups, whether on Facebook, Slack, Discord, etc., you may want to search for snail mail channels, groups, etc. If you are on the Pen Addict Slack, there is a #snailmail channel. There is also a fountain pen penpal group on Facebook called Fountain Pen Friends where I’m one of the moderators. I actually started my penpal journey in that group 5+ years ago and have since added more from the PA Slack. There are also groups like PostCrossing that connect folks who want to swap postcards too.
If you are not in any groups, or you’re uncomfortable with sharing your address with strangers, you can always start with friends and family. Maybe folks on your holiday card list, or folks that send cards to you that you might want to check in on, or people you haven’t talked to since your graduation, last job, wedding, Vegas trip, etc. Don’t forget vendors and businesses that you interact with (and presumably like, lol)! In short, pretty sure everyone likes to get happy mail that isn’t spam, ads and bills!
What do I need to write?
A writing instrument (pen of any kind, but you know me, I’m gonna use fountain pens for my letters), paper, an envelope and stamps. You can also use postcards if the thought of writing a letter or card is too daunting. Check your local postal service for prices on stamps, but in the US, a “forever” stamp costs $0.60 and is good for sending up to a one ounce letter anywhere in the US. For most people that’s plenty; even for a long-winded person like myself, I rarely need two stamps. The cost to mail to international destinations is $1.65 per ounce. You can also send a postcard for $0.44. Pro tip: “Forever” stamps are worth the current value regardless of how much it was worth when you bought them. So stamps from 2018 cost $0.50 but are worth $0.60 now. If you plan on doing more letter writing, it’s worth buying extras, especially if a price hike is coming up (the most recent one took effect a couple weeks ago). Forever stamps exist for regular mail, postcard and international mail.